When working with my clients I often hear comments that negate their own qualities, “I wish I was smarter”, “I wanted so badly to get asked to the dance”, or “Why can’t I get grades like her.” We are constantly questioning what makes us unique, special, timeless, and always searching for affirmation. This dress looks good right? My essay needs one more revision don’t you think? He’ll never like me?
We need to simply do the things that make us happy, challenge our own abilities, and stop questioning what we know to be true–believe in yourself!!! If he says no to that date, so be it, and if 20 years down the road you realize your prom dress was a lot like Princess Diana’s wedding gown, laugh out loud! Don’t be afraid of what makes you a little anxious–be safe–take a healthy risk, and always ask , “What’s the worse that will happen?” If you never try, you will always wonder. See Video.